Tribute to Betsy

Dear Betsy,

Your blog titled “Loving What Is” was one of the first I came across relating to the experience of chemotherapy. The image you posted has changed my perspective towards it. Granted, I am only two treatments in and on a different regime of drugs than you. I might also have a visit from the men with spears down the track, but thanks to you, I’ll visualise them as the Ooompa Loompa’s stirring their chocolate river. Every time I think of the dark clouds surrounding me as I feel the drug’s side effects or lament the temporary changes to my life, I imagine your joyous striped socks and your shiney Minnie Mouse shoes and it just switches the mindset. Click here http://comfortmewithfood.com/2013/01/31/loving-what-is/ to read Betsy’s magic post about finding the good in something that is pretty shitty. A great message to carry through all of life, don’t you think?

So thank you Betsy! x

Betsy’s Chemo Happy Feet

Betsy, lives a mere 25,000 kilometres from my house. (Google actually said 25,470 km’s by a car. But a snorkel is required for much of the distance!) And yet through the awesomeness of blogging we connected. A few days ago, she privately emailed me and ever so kindly offered to post me a brand new pair of her illustrious socks from Chicago.

The only connection that I ever had with Chicago was that Oprah’s Harpo Studios were there, and occasionally I would get a glimpse of the city outside when she filmed those episodes where she had some crazy and mad materialistic giveaways to people. Apparently called the “Oprah’s Favourite Things Giveway”, Oprah really liked a lot of “stuff”… come to a filming of Oprah and go home with 60K worth of kitchen goods and a new car! Woweee! Oh and I also really liked that Sufjan Steven’s song “Chicago” off his awesome (2005) “Illinoise” album as well click here to listen. I’m digressing aren’t I?

Betsy’s offer of striped socks has meant a tremendous deal to me.

So as a tribute to Besty, I rummaged through the depths of my sock draw and found an odd pair that I bought about 12 years ago in a moment of whimsy. Toe socks. Love them! The sock draw is filled with woollen hiking socks and running anklet socks and it doesn’t get opened much these days, pretty much just in winter as I plonk around for most of the year in Birkenstocks. Though I do attempt to wear socks with Birkenstocks throughout the colder seasons, but just not out in public much!

Except yesterday. Yesterday to the chemo ward “health spa” visit number two, while making my small tribute to Besty.

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Lisey’s Chemo Happy Feet


10 Comments on “Tribute to Betsy”

  1. Oh, I LOVE the socks.

    Hang in there and shaft those nasty cells… love the chocolate river….

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  2. helensamia says:

    It is so wonderful how these blogs make the world a smaller place and our journeys less lonely 🙂

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  3. The socks that bind our hearts!

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  4. Steve says:

    I am very happy for your feet, they seem to have come through this with “flying colours”. However, I am feeling sorry for your other digits. Surely your fingers also deserve a treat. They have been “hands on” in all your blogs and other more private endeavours.
    They will be the go between next time you say hi to Betsy.

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    • LiseyBendy says:

      Oh Steve, you must have missed the blog about my first ever pedicure last month. Here is some toilet reading for you. https://shittytittiebangbang.com/2013/03/09/my-paprika-is-hotter-than-yours/. I have also stopped biting my finger nails since my mastectomy. Something about losing a boob and gaining something else I guess. So a manicure will be on the cards at some stage. Of course longer nails are taking time to adjusting to typing and texting. I keep hitting the ‘c’ instead of the ‘x’ for kisses. lol. Today I am wearing dark blue nail polish with orange spots. Keeping it crazy on all extremities. Might paint my nose tomorrow. Apparently dark nail polish helps to prevent the nails falling off from chemo. Nice!
      I will also say hi to the lovely Betsy. ccc, I mean xxx.

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  5. […] As promised, Betsy came through with the goods.  A few days ago some “blooming” awesome cheerful socks arrived at my door from Chicago.  Betsy is currently undergoing her own chemotherapy experience and yet she has the time to give to others. I blogged about the awesome Betsy here https://shittytittiebangbang.com/2013/04/17/tribute-to-betsy/ […]

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  6. […] the nurses as we clanked our cosmopolitain cocktails and reflected on the joyous chemo socks and inspiration from Betsy, while eating canapes, and handling out gifts to any chemo nurse that had stuck a needle in me. […]

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